Teens “with child” in Clackamas Co. find help + unconditional love at Madonna’s Center

Today I had the great honor of driving to Milwaukie to meet with Valerie Aschbacher, the Board President of Madonna’s Center.

Madonna’s Center is a nonprofit devoted to meeting the essential needs of Clackamas County teen parents and their children (up to age 5).

Valerie sat with me for two hours to chat about the history and ambitions of the organization and its varied service to the courageous youth who have chosen to have, keep, and raise their infants.

Their offices are two rooms in a business center — one room looks like an office with desks, computers, and a conference table. The other room is home base for the twice weekly Visitation Volunteers who respond to the services and supplies requests of teen parents. Everything from diapers and diaper rash cream to parenting books and baby blankets.

Valerie said when the organization started (in the 2004-2005 time frame; it’s official launch was Sept. 8, 2005) everything was run out of people’s homes, garages, basements. “That’s how we’re doing it!” I said. I was so inspired to see how the organization had grown.

While I was visiting, I overheard Valerie chatting with a teen parent who called in to ask for help potty training her toddler. “We do have books on potty training, and we also know that 14-months  is too early to begin potty training.”

I loved Valerie’s confident and reassuring tone, and if I loved it, I can only imagine how fabulous the teen mom felt on the other end of the line. Valerie offered to meet the young mom at Payless to buy boots with her. When I left, Valerie was waiting to hear from another young mom who needed a ride to college.

Friday, March 16, from 1-3 pm, Madonna’s Center is holding a free teen parent resource fair in Milwaukie. You can see more info and RSVP here!

And I invited Valerie to our upcoming playgroups, so maybe in April or May you will meet her in person!

Upcoming playgroups — will you join in the fun?

From Flickr's Magderly

Recently Meghann Darne at Rosemary Anderson High School and I have determined the spring schedule for playgroups. We hope you can join us.

Whether you’re an adult or teen parent, please RSVP by emailing me at amy [at] stjohnsvillage.org and I will send you more details! Your little ones are welcome and we’ll have snacks for all.

We’ll meet at Swapnplay, at the side entrance of the Red Sea Church. The address of the Red Sea Church is 7535 N. Chicago, but the Swapnplay entrance is around to the right side — on N. Leonard.

The spring playgroups will take place from 10:30 to 11:30 am on the following Saturday mornings:

  • Feb. 25
  • March 17
  • April 21
  • May 19

Won’t you join in the fun?

 

18 or under? Need health insurance? Try Healthy Kids

Oregon kids without health insurance are eligible for Healthy Kids — an expansion of the Oregon Health Plan.

Depending on your family’s income and size, you can get free, low-cost or full-cost insurance for your children or for yourself if you are a teen. Eligible minors have been uninsured for two months or more, and are legal U.S. residents.

What benefits does Healthy Kids offer?

  • Income-based health insurance option for people 18 and under
  • Medical, dental, and vision care
  • Prescriptions and medical equipment
  • Mental health and chemical dependency
  • Regular checkups and preventative care

Take the first step

Get help with your Healthy Kids application at the African American Health Coalition — regardless of your race.

Please tell them Amy at St. Johns Village Project sent you, and the Project will get a $25 donation.

Rosemary Anderson High School is Looking for Mentors

Adult moms reach out to young moms through Rosemary Anderson High School’s community mentoring program. 

In addition to building a playgroup, St. Johns Village Project is now turning its attention to building one-on-one relationships between adult moms and young moms through RAHS’s mentoring program.

Rosemary Anderson is a vibrant alternative high school operated by the Portland Opportunities Industrialization Center in North Portland.

After an application, background check, orientation and training, mentors get together for an hour a week with their mentees, building strong friendships while modeling problem-solving and other life skills. RAHS offers mentor/mentee pairs with discounts to area coffee shops, monthly field trips, and other help. Pairs can meet at the high school or elsewhere, during and outside of school hours.

Want to learn more? Email Gonzalo Calderon at RAHS for details and to schedule an orientation.

By Amy Potthast Posted in News

Halloween Party Hit!

Almost 50 Halloween costumes for kids to choose from!Today we celebrated Halloween and the launch of the St. Johns Village Project. Lots of teen & adult parents. Partners Kim Filla, Ayla, and Megan from Rosemary Anderson High School; and Crystal from Pathfinder came. We had over 20 little tykes too!!

Check out our Halloween costumes and pumpkin giveaway — photos by Rebecca Mair Lowery.

 

Why Participate in the St. Johns Village Project?

If you are a teen parent — or work with teen parents — you may wonder what the St. Johns Village Project has to offer.  We hope to develop strong friendships and a community of social and material support for all participating families. Specifically:

Friendships and learning together

  • We want to validate parenting successes among the teen parents.
  • We hope each playgroup will have some kind of breakfast with juice and coffee.
  • We want to learn together how to help all our kids get developmental assets — the building blocks for success — by chatting and sharing ideas with each other.

Giveaways

  • When a teen parent attends the playgroup four times, she will get to pick a gift out of a basket — for example, a coupon for a free family portrait, Mudeye Puppet show tickets, a coupon for a free coffee from Peet’s, or a coupon for a free haircut. After four more visits, she’ll get to choose again.
  • Occasionally as we’re able we’ll have raffles for larger prizes or prizes that must be used immediately.
  • Monthly, we’ll bring out kids’s clothes that have been donated for teen parents to bring home a bundle.

Succeeding in school

  • We are committed to helping teen parents meet the community service requirement for high school graduation.
  • We want teen parents to succeed in school, life, and parenting — and are here to help teen parents access what they need to do so.

Support for teen dads

We recognize that the playgroup may or may not meet the needs of teen dads and are committed to finding ways that do, for example, hosting monthly Dads BBQs, and creating a Dads garden plot at the St. Johns Community Garden.

Please check us out! Contact Amy, amy@stjohnsvillage.org or text SJVP to 503-893-8941.

By Amy Potthast Posted in About

Anna Bananas + Leisure Public House fundraiser to benefit St. Johns Village Project

This Sunday, Oct. 24th, and “high noon” join us for a dodgeball throwdown at the brownfield site (approximately 8735 N Lombard Avenue) in St. Johns featuring the folks from:

  • Anna Bananas & Leisure Public House and
  • Slims Bar.

Winner takes the Golden Toilet Seat Award and proceeds this year go to the St. Johns Village Project, thanks to the generosity of Anna Bananas owner Sarah Anderson and partners, and the kind words of swapnplay mom Amber Gauntlett.

From Sarah’s email:

Its a fun, funny event that we have been doing for two years, lots of “smack talk” and lots of antics, but we are all friends and in the end we raise some cash for a good cause! We enjoy raising awareness of community groups like yours that are doing good things, but lots of folks in the neighborhood haven’t heard of it yet.

I can’t find any more information about the event including how much it costs to attend. Sarah says they will try to get the St. Johns Boosters to match revenue from the dodgeball game.

Halloween Launch Party

Oct. 30 — 10:30 am to noon — the St. Johns Village Project invites teen parents and their kids to a Halloween party that marks the launch of our weekly playgroup.

We’ll get together with other families from the neighborhood for a pancake breakfast, and you can pick out a Halloween costume for your child to bring home with you.

Want to join the fun? Email coordinator [at] stjohnsvillage.org for details!

 

Halloween Costumes Needed! and Other Wish List Items

Do you have access to a new or gently used Halloween costume for a child age 0 to 5? We are collecting Halloween costumes for our party Oct. 30!

Other items on our wish list:

  • Breakfast items including fruit, juice, and coffee
  • Healthy Halloween items including treats and bags
  • Children’s books in good condition
  • A flip chart pad and markers
  • Baby and kids clothing and gear in good condition
  • Please email Amy, amy@stjohnsvillage.org if you have costumes or other wish list items you’re willing to donate.

    Thanks!

    Thank you!

    Also, a huge thanks to the little ones for inspiring us and connecting us as moms!

    The St. Johns Village Project wants to sincerely thank the following people for taking time to have conversations about starting up this project:

    The Older Moms and Planning Committee (so far):
    Ally Renshaw
    Carly Brown
    Christy Conant
    Jennifer Ruwart
    Kristen Meyers
    Leah Nusse
    Mieke Clark
    Misty Gremaud
    Nicole Caputo
    Rebecca Maier Lowry
    Shanna Schlitz
    Sommer Slevin

    Swapnplay Board
    Dre Davey
    Amber Gauntlett
    Emily Oldenburg King
    Shanna Schlitz
    Tenneal Lujan

    Heroes, allies and others willing to chat:
    Celeste Janssen, Oregon Mentors
    Cary Hixon, DBM
    Heather Keister, Southlake Foursquare Church
    Esther Harris, White Shield/LIFT
    Kim Filla, Rosemary Anderson High School
    Sara Kemper, Children’s Relief Nursery and Rosemary Anderson High School
    Harold Acevedo, Rosemary Anderson High School
    Chris Otis, Children’s Relief Nursery
    Ely Sanders, Pathfinder Academy
    Crystal Lebeda, Pathfinder Academy
    Rhona Brant, Salvation Army
    Rachel Spigal, Impact Northwest
    Julie Houston, Impact Northwest
    Julia Sylla, Oregon Campus Compact
    Katy Allen, Early Head Start
    Ariana Altieri, Portland Public Schools Teen Parents Counselor
    Tiffany Tucker, Insights Teen Parents Program
    Catherine Malinis, Girls Inc. of Northwest Oregon

    Community support:
    Aprende Con Amigos Preschool Academy
    Early Headstart — Roosevelt High School
    Family Forward Oregon
    Moyo Jasiri
    Mudeye Puppet Theater
    Oregon Mentors
    Pathfinder Academy
    Pumpkin Ridge Gardens
    Roosevelt High School
    Rosemary Anderson High School
    St. Johns Community Garden
    Swapnplay
    White Shield and Salvation Army

    By Amy Potthast Posted in About